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2010-06-25T09:34:00.001+08:00

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Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 8)

2010-06-08T13:57:00.005+08:00

Interview by 'Berita harian"

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 7)

2010-06-07T08:13:00.004+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 6)

2010-06-03T19:53:00.001+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 5)

2010-06-03T19:50:00.003+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 4)

2010-06-03T19:47:00.002+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 3)

2010-06-03T19:44:00.001+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 2)

2010-06-03T19:41:00.001+08:00

Industrial training : Student Exchange Program IITU Kazakhstan (part 1)

2010-06-03T19:37:00.003+08:00

Industrial training : Green Screen Effect

2010-06-03T19:34:00.001+08:00

Industrial training : En. Kok Cheng Research (SK Sri Gombak)

2010-06-03T19:29:00.002+08:00

Candid 8

2010-05-17T12:20:00.002+08:00

Majlis perkahwinan kakak azmi....Congrats ;)

Tragedi di setapak , wangsa maju

2010-05-13T15:30:00.003+08:00

Masa tgah ondway blk dari praktikal..tgh2 syok drive..rasa pelik..
knape byak sangat kete bomba ngan ambulans lalu ni...rupanya..

sempat gak amek 2 shot..pemandangan yg paling x sdap mata memandang..

Candid 7

2010-05-03T10:06:00.002+08:00

Kaki lepak sama2..;)

Kaki buli aku..hehe..;p

Candid 6

2010-05-03T10:04:00.002+08:00

MSD exam...

sniper : Mr. TJ

Candid 5

2010-04-29T14:31:00.001+08:00

Muka menyesal...

Dinner for two = Rm80.0

My comments on YAB Najib PM blog

2010-04-19T10:39:00.002+08:00

Finally , my comments has been approved in our prime minister personal blog..bangga tu..siap promote blog sendiri lg tu..hehe :)

Candid 4

2010-04-19T09:29:00.003+08:00

Lamborghini masuk UNITEN tu..universiti kebanggaan aku..kehkeh

Candid 3

2010-04-19T09:25:00.004+08:00

Raj..control yourself raj..makang jek...haha..kidding :D

I'll keep our memories forever

2010-04-15T15:32:00.006+08:00

Candid 2

2010-04-15T09:58:00.003+08:00

Tgh bincang pasal business...yg bukit blakang tu projek RM50.000.000 kitorg..
Siti..serius siti..control yourself..hehe

Candid 1

2010-04-15T09:56:00.001+08:00

Hujan lebat melanda COIT..mcm nak runtuh je COIT..huhu

My 'sayang'

2010-04-15T09:53:00.001+08:00

My sayang got a new shoes..waaahhh

Jabbawockeez

2010-04-13T16:14:00.001+08:00

Check this out....

Jabbawockeez...the best dance crew..
korg kena tgk video diorg..

cara diorg menari fuhhhh.......aku rasa pun mcm nak menari jgak..haha

The best!!!!!!

Mid valley (Lembah mid)

2010-04-12T08:17:00.002+08:00

Sushi king....1st time makan..

Pastu wayang kat the garden..tiket RM21...plus selimut RM10..waaaa

Before that..glow in the dark bowling...Ping is the winner again..

To alamanda after work

2010-04-09T08:17:00.002+08:00

Can you accept this ?

2010-04-07T11:40:00.002+08:00

YESSSs...i can accept this..

I hate you.

2010-04-07T11:38:00.001+08:00

FIFA 2010 World Cup Match Schedule

2010-04-06T11:36:00.004+08:00

Please copy the link to upload the match schedule

http://www.fifa.com/mm/document/tournament/competition/64/42/24/2010fwc_matchschedule_1702_en.pdf

Updated

2010-04-06T11:22:00.000+08:00

Mulai sekarang...blog ini akan di updated selalu..
da bersawang da lama x updated..

Taman Wetland Putrajaya

2010-04-06T11:09:00.005+08:00

bertarikh...aku pun x ingat bila..tp baru lg la.. mula2 plan nk g kayak..tapi ntah mcm mana plak tmpat da tutup..leceh.. pastu jalan2 la kitorg kat Taman Wetland..main rollerblade.. rollerblade ada 2 pasang jek..manusia ada 10 org.. share2 le jawabnye..amek ko bau dia..haha.. best..

Praktikal kat dlm 'aquarium' COIT

2010-04-06T11:02:00.002+08:00

My workspace...berselerak..biasala tu

Ng ....single lagi

1st time nmpak ng pakai formal...dia single lg

woiitt..keje woii..

2010-04-06T10:57:00.001+08:00

Syurga Cinta

2009-07-17T20:51:00.001+08:00

Jadilah seorang perempuan di dalam bekas kaca,
yang begitu sukar untuk disentuh,

Biarlah lelaki yang betul2 mampu untuk memiliki mu,

No Friendster.

2009-07-11T12:52:00.000+08:00

Saja nak bagi tau...

Xde lg account friendster aku..
huhuhu...

maybe...

Facebook plak pasni..

Coming soon.

New Myvi SE

2009-04-27T09:23:00.000+08:00

U betrayed me,my friend...

2009-03-05T20:38:00.002+08:00

Burung dan tuannya..

2009-03-05T20:26:00.002+08:00

orang kata....
kalu kita genggam kuat2 seekor burung,
burung tu akan mati,

tapi....
kalu kita tak genggam kuat2 burung tu,
nanti burung tu akan terlepas dari tangan kita,

so....

mcm mana ni?

tu x bley,ni x bley...

???????ku kebingungan....

hahhh!!!!!

ada orang yg lain plak kata...
dua2 tu x penting,
yg penting,
si tuannya tau menjaga burung itu dengan baik,makan minum burung itu.
dan si burung pula,setia bersama tuannya walau dalam apa juga situasi,bg membalas jasa tuannya.

Tagged by Mr V.

2009-02-22T15:24:00.001+08:00

1. What is your name: Shazwan Shah

2. A four Letter Word: Song

3. A boy's Name: Sam(aiyo)

4. A girl's Name: Sarah(aiyo)

5. An occupation: Singer (mcm bule)

6. A color: Sumer color(susah sgt nak jawab)

7. Something you'll wear: Suprises (cannot tell u hehe)

8. A food: Sup Gearbox(haha x pnah makan pun)

9. Something found in the bathroom: sumting la jgk(hehe)

10. A place: Somewhere (i belong)

11. A reason for being late:Shhhh!!!(rahsia)

12. Something you'd shout: Shohhh!!! shohhh!!!

13. A movie title: Sepi

14. Something you drink: Sirap of coz

15. A musical group: Spice girls(haha gurau ok....not serious)

16. An animal: Sang harimau

17. A street name: Somewhere in the street(aiya)

18. A type of car: Super Car(hehe)

19. The title of a song: Swing Swing

Strange: Mouse kills snake

2009-02-15T19:19:00.003+08:00

Snake kills and eats mice, that sound normal to me. But how about a mouse kills a snake, and the snake was a venomous viper. Now i got your attention.

This is a story about a great and strong mouse found in Taiwan. The snake was found by the firefighter and it then being kept into a mouse cage. For the lunch, the firefighter put a mouse inside the cage for the snake's meal.

The incredible thing happend here. The mouse become extremely aggressive, it started attact the snake, biting, scratching and it kept kicking the viper's bud.~~haha..

Then after 30-minutes of miracle fight the snake was dead.

Now that was an motivational story for my. How a small, weak and always known as a victim to the snake, becomes a super-mouse and kill the most scared creature known for fearsome reputation.

Moral of the story : To survive in life, doesn't matter who your rival will be, give all your best and never give up.

**the snake was smaller than the mice. that may be a logic to it's death.

Mouse kills snake

A tiny mouse was thrown into a cage as food for a viper - but turned the tables and killed the snake instead.

Firefighters in Nantou town, Taiwan, caught the 35cm snake and put it into a mouse cage for safe-keeping.

"We then found it a mouse for lunch," a spokesman for the team told Apple Daily.

But the firefighters were stunned to see how aggressive the mouse became once it saw the predator in the cage.

"It attacked the snake continuously, biting and scratching it," the spokesman added.

After a vicious 30 minute battle, the snake was dead and the mouse was left with hardly a scratch.

Lan Sengqiu, the chief fireman, added: "Perhaps it used up its venom when we caught it, and perhaps it was a novice predator."

source: http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_3041502.html

TIPS Elak ROGOL dan SEKS Sebelum Kawin

2009-02-15T19:13:00.002+08:00

gambar dari : http://www.infomaya.net/v2/index.php?showtopic=7368

Usya2 topik best kat InfoMaya.net,aku terjumpa tips tentang cara-cara nak elak seks. Tak semena-mena kin tertarik lalu terus buka entri pasal ni.

Terasa ianya sangat penting untuk kaum wanita. Yerla, kalau tengok kat tv, selalu kes2 hubungan intim sebelum kawin ni terjadi sebab pengaruh si teman lelaki. Oleh itu, aku letak gambar di atas, member2 wanita semua boleh belajar dari gambar di atas. Budak2 remaja pun perlu tau ni.

Di bawah ialah tips tambahan untuk elak dari dirogol:

Listed below are safety tips for you to follow that can reduce your risk of assault and/or rape.
- Secure you car and home. Keep a large flashlight, two quarters, a map of the city you are in and five to ten dollars in your car. The flashlight can be used as a light or weapon; the quarters are for the use of a pay phone; and the five dollars is for car emergencies only (eg., new windshield wipers or gas). Always keep your doors and windows locked and evaluate the effectiveness of the locks. Never open your door to a stranger and never tell them you are alone.
- Avoid unsafe situations and strangers. If you are being followed, go to the nearest police or fire department, or any place where several people will be (convenience stores, gas station, etc.) Walk in groups at night.
- Flee if you are in a potentially dangerous situation. Yell or scream to attract attention. Carry a whistle that will make a loud noise.
- Engage in passive or active resistance. Passive resistance is to think and talk your way out of a situation. Active resistance is to react immediately to startle your attacker. Use any available item (HAIRSPRAY, KEYS, PURSE) as a weapon.
- Think! Keep using your mind to think of alternative actions for escape.
- You are responsible for your own safety. Call your local police department or rape crisis center and set up a schedule for a Law Enforcement Officer to speak to your employees or neighbors.
- Don't let a stranger inside your home to use the phone; make the call for him.
- Never admit that you or a neighbor are home alone.
- Women living alone should use only initials on mailboxes and in telephone listings.
- Leave outside lights on at night, and keep lights on in more than one room.
- If you receive an obscene phone call-hang up-don't react.

source: http://www.kevincoffee.com/women_safety/rape_prevention_tips.htm

Tribute to chiczen

2009-02-06T00:33:00.001+08:00

To chiczen...

sori if i copyright chiczen blog

but i tertarik sgt2 dgn hasil blog chiczen,
mmg btul sama dgn apa yg ada kat diri i,

i mintak maaf,
i mintak izin,

to other people...

there are some of my blog is from a chiczen,
but it is related to my life.
maybe kebetulan jek..huhu,

I wonder...

2009-02-06T00:17:00.002+08:00

bagaimana dua orang yang pernah meluangkan hampir setiap masa bersama bertukar cerita bersendaloka bertangis tawa bertahun-tahun lamanya dalam sekelip mata boleh berubah hubungan menjadi orang asing bagaikan tidak pernah berkenalan hingga sanggup membelakangkan diri masing-masing? apakah hubungan bertahun-tahun sebelum itu hanya berlandaskan benefit,dan hanya palsu semata-mata? tiada makna hingga boleh dibuang bak sampah, ditolak sampai berkecai, dibiar lenyap menjadi halimunan?

mengapa jika dulu dibangkitkan kata2 cinta kepada ku,
tp sekarang hanya dlm sekelip mata aja bagai mahu menbuang semua mudah begitu saja,

apa harga cinta itu,
apa makna cinta itu,

aku pelik lg,aku heran lg,
asal ada saja yg x sempurna,
mau dilepaskan begitu saja,
ada ke manusia 100% sempurna di dunia ini?

mengapa begitu cpt kau berpaling?
mengapa begitu cepat kau berputus asa?
mengapa begitu cepat kau menyerah kalah?
mengapa begitu cepat kau berubah?

think. think. think.

satu hari yang tanpa bicara terakhir menjadi penutup satu hubungan dalam kalut dan amarah.

satu hari bila kau pulang menyebar khabar gembira tapi hampa bila yang menjawab hanya unggas dan serangga.

satu harijadi bila kau menanti tiba tetingkap atau terbangan ucapan selamat tapi hanya kosong tanpa isi.

satu hari yang dia bersorak mahupun teriak, dan kau hanya mahu melonjak atau meratap bersama-sama tapi hanya mampu mencuri pandang dari jauh.

satu hari bila dia di depanmu, tapi kau tunduk dan lari melangkah laju bukan kerna mengejar sesuatu tapi mengelak dari bersatu.

satu hari bila kau rindu dan kamu bertemu tapi kau tiba-tba jadi bisu dan malu.

satu hari di depan bila kau merenung satu hari di belakang dan hanya mampu bermimpi dia di sisi kala itu...

it will be too late by then.

tidak kah kau sedar,
tidak kah kau terfikir,
apakah punca sumer ini?

tinggal kau bersama diri kau dan teman-teman khayalan untuk mencairkan hati yang beku.
tinggal kau dan dia dan kenangan tanpa apa yang kau rasa mesra dahulu.

it's just too late by then.

memang yang tinggal cuma kenangan kau dan dia,
tanpa rasa mesra yang menyatu kamu dahulu.

Aku tak hendak perasaan macam ni

2009-01-22T17:49:00.002+08:00

Oh you know, the feelings when you think that you didn't do anything wrong, spesifically to someone, tapi orang tu pulak terasa dengan kau.

Dia sensitif... and guess who else?
Aku pun.

Aku jadi geram (bukan marah) tiba-tiba bila dalam situasi macam ni. Aku jadi tertanya-tanya. Out of being polite, aku akan mintak maaf jugak. Tapi, kadang-kadang aku rasa aku tak patut pun mintak maaf and I don't even need to say anything sebab the game shouldn't even existed in the first place.

Aku pelik. Aku hairan. Aku buntu.
Aku tersepit.

Patut tak aku tolak tepi kepentingan diri sendiri demi menjaga hati orang?
Hati aku, ada orang lain nak jaga?
Hati aku, ada orang nak kisah?

Kawan-kawan, sila fahami keperluan aku sekejap.

Aku rasa zaman-zaman di mana aku perlu memalsukan senyuman dan tawa aku demi menjaga hati-hati kamu, kamu dan kamu dah berlalu. Sebab aku tak mampu nak susahkan diri aku yang terpaksa menanggung sendiri nanti. I have no one else to take care of me, melainkan diri aku sendiri.

Dan sekarang dah sampai satu tahap yang aku terpaksa keraskan hati dari ikut kehendak kamu, kamu dan kamu. Dan pastinya memang satu risiko tinggi yang aku pertaruhkan untuk persahabatan kita yang mungkin jadi lebih rapuh dan senget dari sebelumnya. Tapi aku percaya kalau kamu betul-betul kawan aku, kamu akan cuba fahami keperluan aku.

Sesungguhnya, KALAU aku ada kesempatan,
IF you ever need me -
I'll be there at anytime,
wherever and whenever,
always.

But if I don't, please please please oh PLEASE
don't hate me.
don't ignore me.

Sepertimana aku yang sentiasa tersenyum
bila kau tiada dan berkata tidak,

kali ni aku perlu kau cuba fahami aku.

Untuk penyibuk2 out there..
PLZZZZ

Tolong jgn ganggu kami berdua,
Biarkan kami berdua sahaja.

Biar blog ini menjadi saksi,
Aku akan tgu kamu utk selama2nya.

http://chiczen.blogspot.com/

Review: L.U.V.E.

2009-01-22T10:38:00.006+08:00

What is the ultimate purpose of living?

To love.

What is love, then?

Dan dari sini ceritanya bermula. L.U.V.E dari Pingu Toha. Cerita tentang pencarian makna cinta oleh Uthman Huzir. He is, but a love-fool. Tentang cinta, Uth jadi bodoh.

"Orang kata cinta punya segala emosi. Aku ingin rasa segala emosi itu. Aku mahu rindu. Aku mahu sangsi. Aku mahu cemburu. Aku mahu marah. Aku mahu menangis. Aku mahu sengsara. Aku mahu bahagia. Aku mahu mencinta dan dicintai" -Uth.

Dan tanpa sedar Uth menaruh perasaan dengan gadis berbaju ungu dan bercekak putih yang beberapa kali dia tersempak di hentian bas. Tika hujan lebat dan berkat payung pink, mereka mula berkata-kata. Lana Angrainny - pemilik senyuman yang manis dan mata yang berkilau berkaca; cantik, pandai dan selalu mengalah. Dan kerana itulah tak hairan jika Lana turut memikat hati jejaka lain.

"Ada satu benda yang aku mahu tapi aku tak akan dapat. Dia. Sebab ada orang lain antara aku dan dia. Dia biarkan... Aku dan dia semakin menjauh. Dia tak peduli. Aku menunggu dia kata "awak boleh pegang tangan saya" sekali lagi. Aku ingin letakkan tanganku dalam genggamannya! Tapi aku rasa seperti dia sedang lari tinggalkan aku. Dan sekarang aku sudah terlalu jauh darinya. Aku tak akan dapat ucap 'I love you' pada dia... walaupun aku sudah jatuh cinta pada dia." -Lana.

Orang lain itu adalah Keri dan Vee.

Ahmad Mukhri atau nama panggilan Keri adalah teman Uth yang paling rapat di tempat kerja. Dia ada segala-galanya. Antara Uth dan Keri macam langit dengan bumi, macam bulan dan matahari. Uth selalu ragu-ragu. sedangkan Keri is so full of certainty. "I decided to fall in love with her". Itu matlamat Keri untuk Lana.

"Dude... aku serious dengan Lana. I mean... I really want to be her friend, bes friend. I want to be her lover. I want to be her husband, her family. I just want to be with her, forever. " -Keri.

And then, there's Violet yang mengejar Uth. A girl yang setiap kata-katanya digambarkan penuh berwarna-warni. Penuh emosi.

"You're thinking too much about love... Don't think, feel. Love is a feeling, not thought.
You wouldn't love anybody... so love me. Love me because I love you." -Vee.

And then, there's Elina. The old flame yang masih mengharap cinta.

"Saya masih dengan fairy tale tak sudah saya. Awak dalam realiti sendiri. Our pages don't fit together. Fairy tale tak bercampur dengan realiti. Realiti tak mengiakan cerita dongeng... Tak semua cerita dapat happy ending sendiri, kan?" -Elina.

Dan ini lah kisahnya L.U.V.E.

L untuk Lana. U untuk Uth. V untuk Vee. E untuk Elina. Ceritanya simple dan romantik. Penggunaan ayat-ayat yang sempoi sesuai untuk bacaan ringan. Tapi in the same time mampu buat kita berfikir. Situasi yang terjadi pada aku yang tak pernah mampu to confess, dan mungkin juga terjadi pada kamu, kamu dan kamu?

What happened bila you like someone, and that someone likes you too. Both of you know that you two like each other, but can never find the right word to say it? Dan masa itu boleh membinasakan. What if your bestfriend likes someone that you like? Kau mengalah or let the girl/guy come between you two?

Oh yes, ceritanya komplikated, untuk satu jalan cerita yang ringkas. It's definitely something that I can relate to. Aku timbul rasa kasihan, rasa geram, rasa gembira, segala rasa. Sebab everything pun is so unpredictable.

And how much the courage of saying those three little words can actually give so much impact to someone, to a relationship. It can change a lot of things.

Dan macam Pingu cakap,

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return"

http://chiczen.blogspot.com/

Apa Itu Sex?

2009-01-13T15:32:00.001+08:00

Alkisah seorg anak pompuan yang baru masuk tadika bertanya kepada mummynya.. 'Mummy, mummy? sex tu apa Mi?'..

Terkedulah si ibu.. Terasalah akan kemodenan zaman skrg yg berjaya membuatkan manusia berfikiran lebih terbuka.

Sesuai dgn konsep pendidikan seks yg sedang hangat diperkatakan, mulalah si ibu mencari jawapan yg sesuai utk anaknya dengan harapan anaknya takkan tertinggal dlm arus pendidikan sejagat. Maka si ibu pun mula memberikan jawapan mengenai apa itu sex dengan perumpamaan antara kumbang dan bunga, diikuti dengan pembentukkan bayi dalam kandungan dan diselitkan juga dengan kisah percintaan antara mummy dan daddynya dari zaman universiti lagi sehinggalah dengan kehadiran si comel iaitu anak gadisnya yg bertanya itu..

Tiba-tiba si anak menangis teresak-esak... Si ibu kehairanan dan bertanya. Si anak menjawab dalam tangisan.. Jawapan mummy tu panjang, ruangan jawabannya pendek saja ni...seraya meyerahkan buku latihan yang tertulis kat depannya (cover)..

NAME:...........
SEX:............
Class:..........
Subject:..........

Syoknye Kahwin

2009-01-13T15:23:00.003+08:00

MASA BERCINTA

engkau suka aku pun suka
ke mana pergi pun tak apa
yang penting jalan berdua
naik bas, basikal pun takpa
jalan tengah panas pun takpa
sampai melecet ketiak jadinya
semua suka tiada duka

masa engkau suka
aku pun suka
durian yg engkau suka aku pun suka
walaupun sebenarnya tak berapa suka
petai yg engkau suka,aku pun telan juga
walaupun nak terjegil biji mata
kita sama-sama ketawa

masa engkau suka
aku pun suka
Tempe yg aku makan jadi kegemaran kau juga
walaupun kau tak pernah makan sebelumnya

masa engkau suka
aku pun suka
pakai apa pun tak pebaju merah tudung biru pun tak ape
tudung kau senget aku kata takpe.
gigi kena lipstik aku tak kisah juga
engkau tetap cantik jelita

masa engkau suka
aku pun suka
aku pakai apapun tak ape,
lupa pakai tali pinggang pun tak ape,
T shirt koyak kat ketiak pun tak ape,
Lupa cukur misai pun tak ape,
Kau kata aku tetap handsome seadanya.

BARU KAHWIN...

kau sangat
suka, aku lagilah suka
macam dunia kita yg punya dua minggu
terperap dalam bilik aje sampai
makan pun selalu terlupa

kau sangat suka,
aku lagilah suka
tiga empat papan petai sehari aku tak pernah lupa kau sangat suka, aku lagilah suka
hari-hari tiga empat pinggan tempe kau goreng utk aku saja bila anak dua
lain pulak cerita,
kau suka aku tak suka,
aku suka engkau tak suka
sebab petai yg engkau suka
aku sangat tak suka
mana taknya, bilik air jadi hancing jadinya
mungkin salah aku juga
manjakan engkau sangat dengan petai saja

kau suka aku tak suka,
aku suka engkau tak suka
sebab hari-hari aku nak tempe aje
sampai kau jemu menggoreng jadinya
mulalah komplen aku anak jawa
sendawa pun bau tempe aje,tapi salah kau juga
kau tak pandai nak masak yang lainnya.
sampai sekarang ni aku pun tertanya-tanya suka ke tak suka?...

A Story to live by

2009-01-11T12:58:00.000+08:00

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She
hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always
there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see
the world, I will marry you.'

One day,
someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages
came off, she was able to see everything, including her
boyfriend.

He asked
her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The
girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The
sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected
that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life
led her to refuse to marry him.

Her
boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her
saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before
they were yours, they were mine.'

This is
how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who
was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a
Gift

Today
before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't
speak.

Before
you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone
who has nothing to eat.

Before
you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone
who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today
before you complain about life - Think of someone who died
too early on this earth.

Before
you complain about your children - Think of someone who
desires children but they're barren.

Before
you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or
sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before
whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who
walks the same distance with their feet.

And when
you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the
unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your
job.

But
before you think of pointing the finger or condemning
another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when
depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on
your face and think: you're alive and still
around.

Beauty of MATH

2009-01-01T23:46:00.003+08:00

BEAUTY OF MATH

1 x 8 + 1 = 9
12 x 8 + 2 = 98
123 x 8 + 3 = 987
1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876
12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765
123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654
1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543
12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432
123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321

1 x 9 + 2 = 11
12 x 9 + 3 = 111
123 x 9 + 4 = 1111
1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111
12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111
123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111
1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111
12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111
123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111

9 x 9 + 7 = 88
98 x 9 + 6 = 888
987 x 9 + 5 = 8888
9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888
98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888
987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888
9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888
98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888

Brilliant, isn't it?

And look at this symmetry:

1 x 1 = 1
11 x 11 = 121
111 x 111 = 12321
1111 x 1111 = 1234321
11111 x 11111 = 123454321
111111 x 111111 = 12345654321
1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321
11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321
111111111 x 111111111=123456789 87654321

Now, take a look at this...

101%

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:

What Equals 100%?

What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to
GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?

What equals 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help answer these questions:

If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

If:

H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K

8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E

11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%

But:

A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E

1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:

L-O-V-E O-F G-O-D

12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will! get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

Aku Kesunyian.

2008-12-23T20:22:00.000+08:00

sebelum dikau melangkah pergi

pandanglah sepuas hati

maafkan lah segala silapku

sebelum dikau berlalu

kini aku sendirian lagi

dalam meratapi perpisahan

kini aku rasa sungguh kesunyian

tiada tempat untuk ku luahkan

kau bagiku terlalu bererti

mungkin tidak kau sedari

mungkin nasib selalu begini

selalu ditinggal pergi

hanya ada titis airmata

sebagai temanku yang setia

hanya tinggal kini

ingatan berkaca

kan ku bawa untuk selamanya

biarkan lah daku mengharungi

meskipun tanpa mu menemani

sudah begitu dalam hidupku

x usah perlu kau hulur simpati

akan ku kenang pekerti mu

akan ku bawa bersama ku

biar menjadi satu memori

kekal abadi

ingat la daku yang sudah tentu kesunyian

ingatlah daku yang sudah tentu kerinduan

http://zaryssa.blog.friendster.com/2007/04/aku-kesunyian/

Betul ke kau kawan aku ?

2008-12-15T16:45:00.002+08:00

Bacalah...

1) kawan tu bkn mcm main FUTSAL.Mula-mula kejar.. dah dapat sepak..

2) kawan tu bkn mcm main SKATE.Mula-mula gosok..lepas tu pijak...

3) kawan tu bkn mcm main RAGBI.Mula-mula tangkap.. dah dapat tendang..

4) kawan tu bknnya mcm PAMPERS...dah pakai, buang..

5) kawan tu bknnya mcm BARANG KEMAS.Waktu baru beli pakai. Dah sengkek gadai.

6) kawan tu bkn mcm PELANGI. Hari cerahtakde..hujan gerimis baru muncul..

7) kawan tu bkn mcm KERETA.Rosak skit,jual.. ambik kereta baru..

8) kawan tu bkn mcm CHIPSMORE..kejap ade kejap takde..

9) kawan tu bkn mcm BANK.Bila dah takde duit,pegi kat sana ambik.

10)lagi.....kawan tu mcm ape ye????Haa..kawan tu mcm AWAK LA. ..

bila saya hantar msg,awak akan baca msg saya dgn teliti sampai habis.

Walau ape pun tanggapan org tentang kawan..bagi saya, kawan tu penting.

Seorang kawan takkan biarkan kawan dia menangis,sedih, berduka dan sebagainya.

Kawan yg sejati adalah seorang kawan yang dapat diajak duduk dan berbincang tentang pelbagai perkara.

Yang penting, seorang kawan akan sentiasa menghadiahkan senyuman kpd kawan-kawannya.. -">

My new Monster

2008-12-03T20:53:00.002+08:00

Mitsubishi Mivec V6 1.6 24valve

To all My Classmates

2008-10-27T23:58:00.003+08:00

PKIB = settle (tp diorg da dpt result..aku ni blum lg)
ISLB 2 = esok (payah nak mengingat gak bahasa2 arab ni)
CO = lusa(xde la cuak sgt..da ready gak..tp result midterm mcm hampeh..xpe..relaxx)
SAD = Khamis (Apa pun x start baca lg nik...xpe..relaxxx...midterm pun dpt ok laa)
C++ = Sabtu (lagi men cuak kan..apa pun x start lagi ni..haih)
Multi = Isnin (bole la...projek da kena puji..final xtau la camner..haih)

== Merdeka..port dickson..kami datanggg(tu pun kalu jadi)

To all My Frenz..Gud Luck 4 ur final
Do the best
dun be too tension.
Doa banyak2 n tawakal.
k...jgn stresss..relaxxx

nnnn

jgn relaxxx sgt..
payah korg nanti..huhu.

Comeu.

2008-10-26T20:52:00.001+08:00

Kelemahan mu lah yg menyempurnakan dirimu

2008-10-26T20:47:00.001+08:00

Final Exam...tension tapi suka(haha)

2008-10-26T20:39:00.002+08:00

Bersama teman baru ku..

Tu tgh stdy ke tgk watpe 2?

Tunjuk kan kepada ku

2008-10-22T19:40:00.001+08:00

DENGARLAH SAHABAT KU... ALLAH MEMUJUK MU... WANITA BAIK DIJANJIKAN UNTUK LELAKI BAIK DAN SEBALIKNYA TELAH TERCATAT SEUNGKAP NAMA LELAKI DI LOH MAHFUZ UNTUK MU CUMA PERIBADINYA DI TENTUKAN OLEH SEJAUH MANA KETINGGIAN PERIBADI MU JIKA KAU THABAT DI ATAS JALAN YANG DI REDHAI INSYA ALLAH, DIA TURUT DI JALAN YANG SAMA LUPAKAN SEGALA KEGUNDAHAN TEGUHKAN DIRI PADA CINTA HAKIKI NESCAYA CINTA LELAKI SOLEH INI KAU MILIKI ALLAH LOVE U SENYUMLAH PADA SINAR YANG MENANTI DI HADAPAN...

Mie Open House 2008

2008-10-16T00:54:00.002+08:00

Makanan yang di sumbat ke mulut = nasi impit + satay + laksa + kuih(kenyang2)

* duit raya " maceh kpd ibu mie yg tersayang"

==seronok

Selamat Hari Raya untuk semua.

2008-09-23T17:54:00.002+08:00

Mengemis Kasih

2008-09-23T17:42:00.002+08:00

Tell her.....

2008-09-08T16:45:00.000+08:00

i love walle

2008-08-24T11:36:00.003+08:00

The History of WHN922

2008-08-24T00:52:00.011+08:00

The Story Begin....

Lot of Works

2008-08-04T19:51:00.005+08:00

Group members of 'Multimedia Project'

Find this brand new shoes in store near you

Sleeping Beauty in Advance C-prog lecture.

Group members of 'System Analysis n Design'

Friendzzz (IT 2K)

2008-07-24T17:20:00.006+08:00

Sumer muka penat byk asgmnt ,presentation n mcm2 lg la.

Sumer muka mengharapkan 'today class is cancel'

Sumer muka control macho kacau awek2 uni10 yg lalu-lalang(hahaha)

The great2 happy bday for the great2 Mom in the world.

2008-07-20T18:49:00.003+08:00

Selamat Hari jadi.

Semoga mama panjang umur dan sihat sejahtera

Semoga mama bahagia di dunia dan akhirat

Semoga hidup mama diberkati Allah

The great2 happy bday for the great2 Mom in the world.

Pemanduan Berhemah

2008-07-19T19:17:00.002+08:00

cara-cara memandu sebagai seorang aku :

1) bila memandu di lorong tengah dan mahu memotong, pastikan ambil jalan kiri skali dan kemudian speed sesuka hati kerana menyedari anda hanya memandu sehelai kancil berenjin 660.

2) mengetahui kancil anda telah mencapai top speed apabila kereta telah bergegar seperti earthquake 7 skala Ritcher.

3) apabila melalui kawasan orang sedang potong rumput, pantas naik kan tingkap kereta anda sebelum batu terpelanting masuk kedalam mata anda dan anda menjadi buta bak cerita final destination.

4) jikalau mahukan rambut out-from-the-bed style yang paling au naturale, pastikan anda memandu tanpa menutup tingkap. tetapi make sure tutup tingkap sepantas mungkin apabila lalu sebelah lori sampah kerana ini akan menyebabkan orang tertanya-tanya jika anda tidak mandi langsung selama setahun (bau semerbak yang melekat di baju).

5) memandu dengan sebelah tangan sahaja. sebelah tangan lagi digunakan untuk memegang rambut yang berterbangan di muka (tapi buat-buat muka tenang konon anda seorang driver yang cool)

6) belajar membuat muka ketat apabila terdapat pemandu-pemandu sialan yang meng underestimate anda kerana hanya membawa sehelai kancil.

7) apabila sesat, jangan panik. ikut signboard yang menunjukkan jalan paling familiar. kemudian berhentikan kereta dan membuat panggilan kecemasan kepada rakan-rakan anda dan meminta bantuan mereka untuk menglocate anda. in future, make sure kereta anda mempunyai gps system.

8) pastikan anda fokus semasa memandu. tapi sebagai peneraju utama blog dreams are just dreams, hanya aku dibenarkan daydreaming atau berangan bukan-bukan semasa memandu. di ketika ini lah ilham datang untuk menulis blog.

9) sekiranya kereta anda secara tiba-tiba menghampakan anda dan rosak di tengah jalan pada waktu malam dan anda tidak mempunyai triangle kaler oren didalam bonet kereta, terdapat satu lagi usul yang bernas. ambil helmet cidb anda yang berkaler putih dan letak atas bumbung kereta. tapi kemungkinan besar orang tidak akan membantu kerana terfikir perkara mistik apabila melihat helmet putih diatas kereta dijalan yang sunyi...

10) apabila melalui jalan corner tajam, pijak lagi pedal minyak anda ala ala seperti mahu membuat drift sambil menjerit 'woooo wooooo!'

Cilok dari : http://notyetfamousme.blogspot.com/

SEPI

2008-07-10T19:58:00.003+08:00

FIlem ini mengisahkan 3 cerita yang berbeza, namun digabungkan pada satu babak kemalangan kereta. Cerita in sangat menyayatkan hati dimana Adam menghadapi kesepian kerana masih tidak bertemu jodoh, Sufi yang menyalahkan dirinya kerana menyebabkan kematian isterinya, serta Imaan yang masih dilanda halusinasi akan kewujudan kekasihnya.

This story focusing to the emotion of ’sepiness’. We can see ’sepiness’ from the face expression,views on the film, music, and dialogoe. I can feel the ’sepiness’..but as the movie run..i also feel ’sleepynees’ and ‘coldness’. Because this film a little bit slow..it takes your time to deliver the stories..and to make you understand. This film is quite unexpected,i would say it is different from typical malay movie.

Semua orang pernah sepi...sepi dari keluarga,teman,ataupun kekasih.
Tapi kehidupan ini tidak akan sempurna tanpa mereka yang tersayang.
Kehidupan juga perlu diteruskan bagi bagi mencari makna sebenar kehidupan ini.
Dan tidak lupa juga ,kita harus redha dengan apa yang ditentukan oleh Maha Esa.

ChelseaFC 2008 Player Transfer

2008-07-02T14:32:00.014+08:00

As a new coach ,Lusi Filipe Scolari..there should be many player would be in or out from the team in the start of new season...dun worry...this list is gonna be update always..

IN(confirm)

-Bosingwa(Porto)£16.2million

-Alcides(PSV)loan
-Deco (Barcelona) £10m

OUT(confirm)

Steve sidwell(Aston Villa) £5million

Ben Sahar(Porstmouth)6month loan

Harry Worley(Leicester City)Free

Ryan Bertrand (Chelsea - Norwich City) Loan Deal

Slobodan Rajkovic (Chelsea - FC Twente) Season Long Loan Deal

Hernan Crespo - Released

Jimmy Smith (Chelsea - Sheffield Wednesday) Loan Deal

Claude Makelele (Chelsea - PSG) Free Transfer

Khalid Boulahrouz (Chelsea - VfB Stuttgart) Undisclosed Fee
Tal Ben Haim (Chelsea - Man City) Undisclosed Fee

Shaun Cummings (Chelsea - MK Dons) Loan Deal

Anthony Grant (Chelsea - Southend United) Free Transfer

Claudio Pizarro (Chelsea - SV Werder Bremen) Season-Long Loan Deal

Lee Sawyer (Chelsea - Southend) Loan Deal

Jack Cork (Chelsea - Southampton) Loan Deal

*This list will be update.Any latest confirmation will be inform.*

or u can visit this website:

http://www.premiershiplatest.com/transfer-centre
http://soccerlens.com/la-liga-transfers-summer-2008/7850/

latest update(24/08/2008)

Tak patut ada minus.

2008-07-02T14:24:00.003+08:00

Result discrete da kuar...ramai yg dapat gred yg ada minus kat dpn(haha)..
tp xpelaa....bersyukur je la...uhuhu..

SPAIN 1-0 GERMAN

2008-06-30T18:49:00.001+08:00

wahh ...spain gempak..aku pun tak suka kalu bagak2 tinggi germany menang..pasal aku tak suka micheal ballack..huhu

tp sedih gak hollan kalah...pap=tut champion la holland..tp mana silap nya..haih..

tahniah utk DHIYA ,VISHAn...sapa lg sokong spain..haha.suka la tu..

fenando torres...idola dhiya..haha

pasni World Cup 2010 plak..

broadband

2008-06-30T02:16:00.000+08:00

bila la nak ada line tepon ka umah aku ni...

da menyirap da asik guna broadband je...lembab nak mampus..

MB,jln kan kewajipan anda..

Kini kita sumer ada alasan baru

2008-06-30T01:45:00.000+08:00

Sejak dulu lagi trend buang bayi amat popular di kalangan kita.

Yang sedikit kejam, ditinggalnya di tepi tong sampah taman permainan kanak-kanak atau di dalam longkang. Yang kurang kejam pula akan tinggalkan di tempat paling popular, tangga surau.

Lepas satu kisah, kisah yang lain kita dengar. Ruji. Macam nasi. Masih tak makan saman orang kita. Macam makan nasi. Harga naik tapi orang tetap makan. Peduli apa.

Buat pandai. Kondom tak reti pakai.

Bila dah jadi, selalunya pihak perempuan yang akan disalahkan. Gedik sangat. Seksi sangat. Berani sangat. Bodoh sangat.

Pertanyaan klise bila pihak perempuan dikesan ada tanda-tanda perutnya berisi, "Anak siapa?"

Si perempuan terketar-ketar menyebut nama yang bertanggungjawab. Kemudian si bapa terus meluru ke rumah pihak lelaki dengan parang di tangan.

Itu drama Melayu yang selalu kita tengok di kotak bodoh.

Sekarang pihak perempuan ada alternatif lain. Senang. Sebut sahaja alasan ini nescaya ibu bapa berpuas hati. Tak perlu soal siasat panjang-panjang. Kekasih hati juga tak perlu risau disalahkan walau sepatutnya dia yang punya tanggungjawab.

Cara-caranya:

Mula-mula ceritakan bagaimana satu malam beberapa bulan lalu kamu mengalami mimpi aneh. Seorang lelaki berpakaian pahlawan lengkap serba kuning dengan muka bercahaya mendekati kamu di ranjang. Kemudian kamu ditidurinya.

Esok, apabila bangun dari tidur kamu cerita bagaimana sendi-sendi kamu sakit-sakit terutama di bahagian anu.

Habis cerita.

Tak melibatkan bapa kamu diserang penyakit jantung atau parang terbang.

Cuma mungkin kemudiannya gambar kamu dengan mata dibarhitamkan terpampang di muka surat hadapan Harian Metro atau Mastika dengan tajuk besar, "Gempar! Mengandung anak bunian!"

ihsan dari http://meludahlangit.blogspot.com/

tag

2008-06-29T13:36:00.000+08:00

1 minit yang lalu, ape anda buat?
adik aku ckp 'nah rm15 bli makan,rm20 isi minyak,ingat bli utk adik skali'(malasnye)

1 jam yang lalu, ape anda buat?
msg rakan2 kata blog da siap.(1st time buat blog)

1 hari yang lalu, apa anda buat?
baru jual O2 aku(huhu sedih tapi puas hati)

1 hari lagi, ape anda akan buat?
tdo memanjang sebab mlm ni sure tak tdo tgk EURO final

1 orang yang terakhir sms kamu?
Vishan ,dia kata nak kuar,nanti later dia tgk blog aku (haha)

1 orang yang terakhir menelefon kamu?
mama "mama da sampe UIA ni"(mcm biasa kena amek)

1 makanan yang baru dibeli?
sarapan td nasik lemak(tak mkn lg,psl tak biasa mkn pagi2,bole mkn utk tghari,saving duit.hehe)

1 barang yang baru hilang?
O2 aku..(ku izinkan ko pegi,berambus)

1 cerita yang baru ditonton?
Wild hogs(smalam bosan2 takleh tdo layan DVD)

1 hal yang terakhir digosipkan?
tak penahbergosip(girl suka la bergosip,haha)

1 kata yang ingin diluahkan..?
bila nak kuar exam result ni.

1 buku yang sudah dibaca?
shin chan jilid 23(kena ikut turutan,ulang baca pun takpe,tak bosan,haha)

1 keinginan?
ptg ni basuh keter..huhu

dgn ini me mengtag : semua or yg bace blog ini (sbb saye ni baru belajar x reti lagi nak kenal blogger)

SAMAN

2008-06-29T13:21:00.000+08:00

-Sape2 yg adakereta especially bgmodder2 keter mcm aku ni mesti pernah kena saman kan,tak kisah la dr JPJ ke,polis ke.
-Terus-terang akukalu nak kira jumlahsumer skali saman aku sepanjang nak dkt 5 tahun lebih aku pakai keter ni ,nak dekat RM5000 aku abih psl bayar saman je.Blacklist dah 2 kali kena.
-Paling ketara penyebab kena saman keter aku ni,Tinted ngan Ekzos.
-Aku tak paham la tinted ni,kita ni kan dok kat negara Malaysia,1 negara,1 perlembagaan,1 undang2.Jdk tf ada seorg pun yg harus terlepas dari undang2 yg telah ditetapkan.
-Tp kenapa diorang bole plak buat ,yg bole guna tinted gelap hanyalah org kenamaan(VIP) atau mereka yg berpenyakit.Yg berpenyakit ni aku phm la,tp yg VIP ni,mcm la org nak tgk sgt muka diorg ni sampe diorg je yg bole tinted gelap2.Apa ingat ada rg nak sniper kepala otak diorang ke.
-Bagi ku ni sgt2 tak adil utk org miskin n hobi sg seorg modder mcm aku ni.Kalu nak tetapkan undang2 tu biarla kpd sumer lapisan masyarakat tak kira Dato ke Tan Sri2 ke(Wutever).
-Kalu nak pegi expension(taktau eja btul ke tak),nak kena huluq gak tu.Ini da kira membuli golongan miskin.
-Bg ekzos plak.kenapa memakai ekzos bising salah dan mejual ekzos bising tidak salah.KENAPA.This is Stupid ruled i ever heard.BANGSAt btul.
-Aku bukan nak kutuk kerajaan.Aku sndiripun Pemuda UMNO.Apa yg aku maksudkan kalu nak tetapkan undang2tu,biarla ADIL dan SAKSAMA.Baru la diberkati hidup kita.
-Kita mesti berjuang.Hidup utk MODDERS.haha..

Huha..

2008-06-29T03:13:00.000+08:00

Before marriage:-

He: yes! Ive been waiting for this moment!

She: do you want to leave me?

He : no! Dont even think about it!

She :do u love me?

He :ofcourse! Over n over!

She:have u ever cheated on me?

He :no! Y r ueven askin that??

She :will u kiss me?

He :every chance i get.

She :will u hit me?

He : r u crazy?i'm not that kind of person.

She: Can i trust u?

He :Yes!!

She: Darling!

After marriage!
Just read it from bottom to top

Kungfu Panda

2008-06-29T03:07:00.000+08:00

Well korang mesti da tgk citer ni kan...korang mesti ingat kan yg pesan Master Oggway(tak tau eja btul ke tak) kat Master Shifu:

Yesterday is a history,
Tomorow is a mystery,

But today is a present..

...bg aku ni la dialog yg aku ingat sampe skrg dlm mana2 movie pun.. hmm korang pk sndri k..malas la nak buat rumusan..haha..

http://notyetfamousme.blogspot.com/

2008-06-29T03:05:00.000+08:00

Lupa plak...post yg kat bawah ni amek dari

http://notyetfamousme.blogspot.com

2008-06-29T02:52:00.000+08:00

Based on my friends and my own experience as a child of divorce, I would like to share some real insight on what might happen to the father-mother-children (relationship) should you choose to get a divorce so you will reconsider it over and over again especially for the sake of the children. Since this is based on true experience and feelings, hope you guys can benefit from it. It could also be biased because all the contributor were practically raised by our mother and it is from the view point of the child.

Women capability of raising children on her own

1. A woman alone is capable of raising her child solely without any financial help IF she has a stable well-paid job. I calculated that she must at least has an income of RM 4000 per month enough to lead on more than a decent live for herself and one child (enough to buy a comfy house and a car), attending local school (need more income for private school) – almost luxurious life but not very lavish. RM 2000 must be added for the addition of another child, each; to maintain the same situation.
2. However, when the mother is so independent she became very dominant and prominent in her children lives to the extent that the role of a father can be understated that it is almost non-existence.
3. The bad side of this is, although a woman alone can ‘act’ as the father and a mother at the same time, her love can’t compensate for the security and the air of stability provided by a father during his presence.

Importance of a child-father relationship

4. The relationship between child-father especially daughter-father must be established so that when she grows up, she can still depend on the father for comfort or help in a very difficult or dangerous situation.
5. However, it can be frustrating for the daughter if she feels that the relationship with the father is not very solid, therefore, she MIGHT cling on to men that she met along her journey to adulthood making her a needy or possessive partner.
6. The relationship between child-father especially son-father must be established so that when he grows up, he can still look up to the father should the peer pressure become very intense and he is in dear need of a role model.
7. However, it can be damaging for the son if he feels that the relationship with the father is not very solid, therefore he might further distance himself from the father and shut him away completely that he does not have a male guidance at all, thus leaving him vulnerable for making bad decisions in choosing his friends and his moves in life.

Importance of a child-mother relationship

8. Son that was not raised with the love of a mother (woman) will have a harden soul, most likely to NOT be a gentleman. However, most often than not, the act of coldness was in fact an attempt to mask a broken heart.
9. Daughter that was not raised with the love of a mother (woman) will be rebellious, too rebellious that it is damaging. Usually they become the prey of callous men that wanted to only take advantage. Daughter at this situation will be blinded by their own fantasy and loneliness.

Role of a father-mother

10. A mother can encourage the child to be courageous, hard-working, but a father can encourage the child to be disciplined, realistic, optimistic, to have vision and to plan well.

Father-mother on regrets

11. A father can have regret but do not know how to show it and choose not to and forever he bears it in his heart. Or forever distance himself from the child. Or if not, will be a better man
12. A mother can have regret but showing it too much and lobbying the children to unfairly, always be on her side.

Daughter-Son reaction on divorce

13. Daughters tend to be more forgiving and understanding towards the whole divorce situation compared to sons especially for the sake of the mother. Sons, tend to hold grudges or hatred or do not care at all.
14. Therefore, divorcee has probably only one shot of a chance to develop a good loving relationship with sons, usually the most crucial part is when the son is in his toddler to teenage age. It is at this part of life the son decides who stays in his life, or who will not. The one that has no significant effect in his life at that time will probably be cast away from his life. Forever.
15. However, daughters being the forgiving and the understanding member have no age limit on when they can start to develop relationship. Usually the relationship can be established if they know that the mother or father will be ready to listen to her or to accept her whenever she encounter some troubles or issues – love, pregnancy, abortion, exams, stress, money-related.

Nafkah

16. As trivial as it may seem, if the children knows that the father is not paying the ‘ nafkah’ or not consistently paying it, they will feel a sense of abandonment and neglect. Eventhough the mother can afford everything, they still feel hurt.

Child of a divorce on relationship

17. Child participation in mischievous act is contributed to many factors, therefore it is unfair to blame solely on the divorce itself. However, the most important effect of divorce is when the child enters a romantic relationship; he/she will have some kind of insecurities and trust issues that may be jeopardizing their own pursuit of happiness, especially if one of the parents was cheating before.
18. They tend toa. not having guts in loveb. be loyalc. or a pathological flirtd. be possessive
19. If the daughter was raised by a very independent mother, she will not be afraid to do the same (get divorce) should her marriage turn haywire. Seeing the mother so strong, made her strong too. It led her to believe she can pull it through. Most of the time it turned to be otherwise especially if the decisions was made purely by a bruised ego or a scorn woman
20. If the son was raised by a very independent mother, he will love her and look up to women.
21. Or vice versa. He may think that it is not that bad to leave a woman as they can take care of themselves very well

Domestic violence

19. A son witnessing domestic violence will hate his father.
20. Sadly, he tends to be an abuser himself.
21. A daughter witnessing domestic violence will be scared of men.
22. Sadly, she tends to compromise the value possess by a man when finding partner- as long as the guy never beat her or be violent. Sometimes, she doesn’t even care if she ends up being the whole bread winner in the family.

Losing the family

23. The party that had been granted the sole custody will have the upper hand in molding the child character and spend more time with the children. You still can visit the child, but to them, if they don’t see you that often, they might as well treat you less importantly. Same goes to your advices. You will probably not be listened to.
24. When divorce happen, the child’s heart broke into pieces that will be impossible to mend. The hurt will be felt endlessly. Eventually, the more they understand about it, the more hurtful it feels. Even THAT single paper will tear them apart.

Having stepfather and stepmother

25. Daughters eventually hate their stepmothers whether they show it or not. Regardless what the claim was, they tend to view the stepmother as a homewrecker and somebody that will ‘steal’ the father away.
26. It is normal for the daughter or son- to be not on talking terms with the steps
27. Sons are indifferent with stepmother but will feel jealous if they biological mother shows
favour to the stepfather instead of him.

Father’s intervention

28. IS A MUST (eventhough the child is raised by the mother) if the child is suspected to be involved in:
a. drugs- taking
b. crime- committing
c. prostitution –being one
d. abusive relationship- not- yet- married- daughter is abused
e. harrasment by others

f. debt

Cooperation is needed between father and mother if

29. This situation happens
a. child is kidnapped
b. child run away
c. child has suicidal behaviour
d. child is extremely sick
e. lack of money for education purposes
f. child is getting married and planning a wedding

*some of it are true and happen to me. but lain orang lain la ragam kan?*

~oo btw do read that blog. so funny~

Why WINNING ELEVEN.?

2008-06-29T02:27:00.000+08:00

Sebenarnya nama 'Winning Eleven' ni aku amek dari game feveret aku,alagame pasal bola sepak.Biasa la kan da mina nak wat camne.Tapi bila aku pikir tentang eleven tu atau dlm basa ibunda 'sebelas',setiap posisi dalam sebelas org dlm satu pasukan tu dapat membentuk sebuah team yg kuat(apa aku merepek ni).Jdk, aku pun terpikirla..

1. Goal Keeper
-Untuk menahan dari segala dugaan dunia dari terpelosok ke dalam diri ku ini yang penuh dengan dosa-dosa.

2. Center Back(left and right)
-Untuk memikirkan samada ku terima hitam(left) ataupun putih(right) dalam mencorak perjalanan hidup aku ini.

3. Side Back(left and right)
-Bagi menahan segala hawa nafsu yang mudah menguasai diri ku ini.

4. Defensive Midfielder
- Untuk membantu semangat aku untuk terus hidup ,mempelajari kesilapan yang lampaudan membuka ruangan di hatiku ini untuk bertaubat dan menuju ke rahyg lebih diberkati.

5. Center Midfielder
- Menjadi penghubung antara diriku dan apa yang akan ku pilih untuk masa depan diriku ini.

6. Side Midfielder(left and right)
-Menjadi nadi utama dalam kesungguhan diriku ini bg mencapai apa yang aku inginkan.

7. Actacking Midfielder
-Penghubung antara masa depan dan masa lampau diri ku ini.

9.Foward
-Keinginan diri aku ini utk menjd seorg yg berjaya serta menjadikan kedua ibubapa aku bannga dengan apa yg telah aku lakukan. Juga manjadi seseorg yg dihargai.

Kalu korang tak paham apayg aku wrote kat atas,jgn tanya aku..psl aku pun blur gak nakexplain..pandai2 korang sendiri la k.REMEMBER tiap2 satu player sgt2 penting.kalu satu hancur sumer pun hancur..